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Love – ARE YOU WITH THE RIGHT PARTNER?

During a seminar, a woman asked,” How do I know if I am with the right person?”

The author then noticed that there was a large man sitting next to her so he said, “It depends. Is that your partner?” In all seriousness, she answered “How do you know?” Let me answer this question because the chances are good that it’s weighing on your mind
replied the author.

Here’s the answer.

Every relationship has a cycle… In the beginning; you
fall in love with your partner. You anticipate their calls,
want their touch, and like their idiosyncrasies. Falling in love wasn’t hard. In fact, it was a completely natural and spontaneous experience. You didn’t have to DO anything. That’s why it’s called “falling” in love.

People in love sometimes say, “I was swept of my feet.”Picture the expression. It implies that you were just standing there; doing nothing, and then something happened TO YOU.

Falling in love is a passive and spontaneous experience. But after a few months or years of being together, the euphoria of love fades. It’s a natural cycle of EVERY relationship.

Slowly but surely, phone calls become a bother (if they come at all), touch is not always welcome (when it happens), and your spouse’s idiosyncrasies, instead of being cute, drive you nuts. The symptoms of this stage vary with every relationship; you will notice a dramatic difference between the initial stage when you were in love and a much duller or even angry subsequent stage.

At this point, you and/or your partner might start asking, “Am I with the right person?” And as you reflect on the euphoria of the love you once had, you
may begin to desire that experience with someone
else. This is when relationships breakdown.

The key to succeeding in a relationship is not finding the right person; it’s learning to love the person you found.

People blame their partners for their unhappiness and look outside for fulfillment. Extramarital fulfillment comes in all shapes and sizes.

Infidelity is the most common. But sometimes people turn to work, a hobby, friendship, excessive TV, or abusive substances. But the answer to this dilemma does NOT lie outside your relationship. It lies within it.

I’m not saying that you couldn’t fall in love with someone else. You could. And TEMPORARILY you’d feel better. But you’d be in the same situation a few years later.

Because (listen carefully to this):

The key to succeeding in a Relationship is not finding the right person; it’s learning to love the Person you found.

SUSTAINING love is not a passive or spontaneous experience. You have to work on it day in and day out. It takes time, effort, and energy. And most importantly, it demands WISDOM. You have to know
WHAT TO DO to make it work. Make no mistake about it.

Love is NOT a mystery. There are specific things you can do (with or without your partner), Just as there are physical laws Of the universe (such as gravity), there are also laws for relationships. If you know how to apply these laws, the results are predictable.

Love is therefore a “decision”. Not just a feeling.

Remember this always: God determines who walks into your life. It is up to you to decide who you let walk away, who you let stay, and who you refuse to let GO! ♥

 
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Tum Nahi…

Sab Kuch Mere Saath Hai Magar,
Tum Nahi…
Wohi Din Wohi Raat Hai Magar,
Tum Nahi…
Wohi Sham Ka Dhalta Suraj,
Wohi Tut Te Sitaare,
Phir Tanha Meri Raat Hai Magar,
Tum Nahi…
Pyaar Ke Jis Mode Pe Saath Chode Gaye,
Khade Aaj Ussi Mode Pe Hai Magar,
Tum Nahi…
Badhti Betaabi Ye Bekashi Aur Meri Ye Tanhai,
Labon Pe Sirf Teri Baat Hai Magar,
Tum Nahi…
Woh Waqt Jo Guzraa Tha Tere Hum Raah Kabhi,
Ruke Wahi Lamhaat Hain Magar,
Tum Nahi…
Tum Nahi…
Tum Nahi…

tum nahi

Logon ne kaha sharabi se….

Logon ne kaha sharabi se….
mat pee aey sharabi itna,
yu peene se kaha ghum mite hai

ispe sharabi ne jawab diya…

nahi pita mai sharab apne ghum mitane ke liye, (2)
pita hu bas is jalte dil ko bujhane ke liye,
pita hu is duniya se door jane ke liye,
pita hu uski yaadon mai kho jane ke liye,

yeh jantahu usse pana ab meri kismat mai nahi, (2)
isiliye pita hu apni hasti mitane ke liye….

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Ek dost tha mera jo kahi kho gaya…. cont….

Ek dost tha mera jo kahi kho gaya,
jane kaise vo mujhse juda ho gaya,

jo kehta tha apni dosti har pal nibhaunga,
bas ek awaaz de na dauda chala aaunga,

kaisi ranjish mai na jane mera dost fasa hai,
kis desh jane dost mera ghar bana basa hai,

gila hai nahi naa hi shikwa tujhse koi,
na hi tere door jane ki wajah koi,

kehte hai dosti ka rishta upar wala nahi hum khud banate hai,
fir na jane kyu dost is rishte ko bhool tanha chod jate hai.

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Mere dost kaha kho gaye….

jo kehte the mujhe dost kabhi,
jo milte the har roz kabhi,

jinhe yaad karta mai jab kabhi,
khade ho jate samne tabhi ke tabhi,

vo saath mai rehna, khoob masti karna,
mushkilon ke daur me saath hokar ladna,

vo tapri mai milna, vo class bunk karna,

vo saath baith ke lecturer ko jhelna,
lecture ke waqt canteen mai patte khelna,

aur jab aati exams mai padne ke baari,
jane kaha se aajati sab ko bimari,

ek ladki ke saath ek dusre ki pairing,
ek sutte ki sab doston mai sharing,

kuch paise hote the haath mai,
par sab dost rehte the saath mai,

vo bhi kya daur tha kya aalam tha,
us waqt humko yeh kaha malum tha,

ki ek din sab ek dusre se juda ho jayenge,
apni zindagi mai na jane kahi kho jayenge,

aaj na waqt hai kisi ko yaad karne ko,
aaj na waqt hai kisi se baat karne ko,

agar koi milne ki bhi fariyaad kare,
toh waqt nahi hai mulakat karne ko,

aaj kehne ko mai hu aur mere dost hai,
sab aapni aapni zindagi mai mast hai,

paise toh bohat hai haath mai,
par mere dost nahi mere saath mai,

jo kehte the mujhe dost kabhi jane kaha ghum ho gaye,
is paise hi bhag daud mai jane mere dost kaha kho gaye,
jane mere dost kaha kho gaye,
jane mere dost kaha kho gaye….

i was replaced….

She said she loved once
She said she loved twice
She said she loved thrice
She said she loved many times

we had a great relationship
but today we are apart,
she married to someone whom,
she dint knew since start

but today when you ask her,
whom does she think of all her day,
she would say it very proudly,
the one whom she is married today.

once i thought love was for all,
but now i think love is just fuck all,

those where days when in our hearts
eachothers names were placed,
my heart still have that name,
in her heart my name have been replaced….

I Would have So Far Gone

You keep me chained up.
You keep me locked in.
You don’t even care that I’m hurting.
I can’t wait for the day that I can make my escape.
I wanna turn my back on this mess and run away.
I don’t even want to see your face again.
I’m serious this time.
I’ve had more than enough.
I take it over and over, but not this time.
It won’t be long.
I’ll spread my wings.
I won’t even say goodbye;
I’ll just fly.
I’ll no longer hide.
I’m gonna find me,
with no help from you
and those hurtful words
you use so frequently
as if they’re nothing;
as if I’m nothing.
If you want me gone,
you’ll recieve your wish, in time.
I promise this.
I’ll be so far gone you won’t even remember me and for once,
I’ll be happy.
A very beautiful poetry written by Joie, a 15-year-old girl who loves writing poetry.